To say Annette was an opportunist only begins to describe the the woman from Rio. (Rio Del, Humboldt County)
She is a striking brunette – both buxom and brassy. She attracted men like a moth to a flame. Whether it was charisma, phernomes or a magnetic attraction- none of her friends understood the dynamic. They merely watched as men dropped hints and business cards and asked her out every night of the week.
She didn’t actually wear a T-shirt that said “Will date for food,” but Annette had created a list of the Top 20 Restaurants in Miami and her goal was to leave her mark and dine at a dozen of the “Top 20” each month.
Her success rate was staggering. Pubbelly, YardBird, Upland, The Bazaar, Pan E Vino, Stubborn Seed were all on her “Been there done that” list.
She was torn between liking a guy or just going out to dinner.
Her secret motto is: A girls got to eat. Her pals kidded that her refrigerator looked like a kennel with dozens of Doggie Bags lining the shelves.
Annette was happy. Oblivious. And out to lunch – and dinner – all week long.
Eventually she decided she was craving karats…and she started a whole new campaign.
May all your Christmas wishes come true!
Have more fun this Holiday Season and Reach out and touch Someone
Hey, kids! Try this at home (and away from home)
Say ‘Merry Christmas’ to everyone.
I say, “Bah, humbug!” to the bland, vanilla, PC “Happy Holiday” malarkey.
Take it up a notch, say “Merry Christmas” to the people on the bus, in line at Dunkin Donuts/Starbucks, the doorman, the waitress, barista, the Lyft driver, the salesclerk, the bus driver, the people in the elevator and everyone! What goes around…
“One of the sanest, surest, and most generous joys of life comes from being happy over the good fortune of others.”
Robert A. Heinlein
Good Bye, California and Cashmere!
And turtle-necks, leather boots, scarves, and gloves, berets, blazers, and wool coats…
Hello, Flip flops, sandals, T-shrts, sundresses, capris
and suncreen in December
(and January, February, March…)
No reindeer – lots of Pink Flamingos –
No Snow-flakes – Lots of Snow-cones
Flipper and Flamingos – The New Normal
Florida- where Palm Reading takes on a whole new meaning.
Miami is just really fun whenever I go there. It’s like this post-apocalyptic Barbie world: everything is pink, and there’re palm trees everywhere. But then there are also all these people in crazy sunglasses
simple, smart, succinct…sexy.
It doesn’t take a genius to Master the Art of Flirting
Do this! Here are five very effective Flirting Techniques:
#1. Look – The eyes have it: The first tip of successful flirting involves Eye Contact. Let’s say you see somebody you think is attractive. Let your eyes linger- just for a bit. Smile, look back, and don’t look away.
#2. Laugh – Everybody likes to think they have a great sense of humor. If you want to score points and attention- laugh at the witty statement be them corny or funny.
#3. Listen – Everyone wants to be heard. When this new person is speaking, listen to what they have to say while looking them in the eyes. Keen flirtatious listening always involves eye contact.
#4. The touch of love– just like the song. A surefire connection is as simple as a light touch on the wrist, elbow, or arm during the course of the conversation. Amy G tells every guy she meets, “You are so funny.” and she places her hand on his. Home run every time.
#5. Put your hands on your hips. This classic Body Language 101 tells it all – You are open and interested and available. If you don’t like the person, very often we cross our hands over our chest which is the international language for “You’re not doing it for me. I’m about to leave.” The way you stand- facing the person next to-you not turned away- speaks volumes. Try it.
Oops, I did it again! Two Big dating mistakes
Too much, too soon, too fast – That long and flirty exchange of e-mails – for a week or two- is a big mistake.
Texting back and forth all day long before your first date is a huge Dating Blunder -unless you are looking for a pen pal. Expectations grow and grow and become way out of proportion. Way.
You expect a sexy, flirty Brad Pitt kind of a guy. Your name is Penny and you are petite, with long dark hair and he expects Penelope Cruz or a perfect Barbie Doll…
Sometimes when you meet, face-to-face those grandiose expectations fall flat. Texting pithy one-liners is not the same as carrying on a conversation.
Exchanging ideas and dreams – pre first date? Don’t waste your time and valuable time and energy with fabulous flirting via e-mail.
Keep your eyes open – it is so easy to get blinded by a crush – sometimes we forget the goal is to carefully, nonchalantly, check a person out.
Meeting for cocktails– Maybe you think that a first date should be for smart cocktails at a glam joint. It sounds sexy and fun and you love going to Union Square…
One drink is a great idea. Two drinks could be okay…three- are generally pushing it, and anything beyond that – is a very bad idea. Why?
Your brain will be murky by Makers Mark or clouded by Clos de chardonnay – and you will be compromised and vulnerable; your standards will have dissipated and your “Top 10 Things I’m Looking for in a Date” flies out the window when a modicum of charm, and champagne cocktails blind you.
Take it easy. Take your time. Set limits.
Top 10 things I learned about Florida
- The drivers in Florida are infamous for being are the worst in the nation.
- The produce is a lot more expensive- and you are spoiled in California.
- Everything is located in a strip mall: doctors, dentists, gourmet restaurants.
- There are big box stores everywhere- BJ’s, Wal-Mart, Kmart, Marshall’s.
- Dunkin’ Donuts is on every street corner; Floridians eat a lot of donuts.
- It’s hard to find a Wi-Fi cafés. It is hard to find a “coffee shop.”
- There are no bookstores. (Those two or three Barnes & Noble don’t count)
- Rain can fall in buckets, and miraculously cause traffic to crawl – then clear up instantaneously.
- The summertime clouds in Florida are breathtakingly spectacular. The hot, sticky humidity isn’t.
10. Everyone goes to the beach on the weekends- and it’s impossible to find a parking place- especially in light of the fact they just razed an 800-car parking garage.
And…There is a reason 1,000 people
move to Florida.